Tough Relationships :: A Friday devotion :: VA MD DC Wedding & Portrait Photographer

I was talking to one of my friends on the phone earlier this week about tough relationships. And how they affect your walk with God. Sometimes there will be people who will take your hand and walk with you. Others will stand behind, not understanding. And then there are those that will fight to keep you from moving forward. Just as I was about to say something about those that keep you from moving forward my 2 1/2 year old walked over, sat down, and wrapped herself around my leg. My kids sometimes do this when I’m leaving to go somewhere. Typically saying something like “No mommy, don’t go!” I think in some ways this is just a perfect metaphor for those that fight to keep us from moving forward. They grab tight and yell “NO, dont go!”  Those that don’t know God are scared. Scared for the unknown, scared for the change. It’s natural for us as humans to fight when we are scared, or don’t understand. Sometimes when I don’t know how to express to Justin that something scares me, especially when I think he wouldn’t understand, my emotions turn to anger. But being scared goes back to fear, a topic I discussed a couple weeks ago. Fear is a lack of trust in God. What if something happens? Beth Moore said the following phrase in her Esther bible study, “If _________, then God. If your worst fear happens, then God steps in. God will walk hand in hand with you, and bring you forward. And when you think you can walk no longer, he picks you up and carries you forth. Learning to lean on God is such a powerful lesson. And some days it’s easier than others. Sometimes we will wander and think we can do it all on our own, but come back to God realizing we can’t.

Our walk with God is such an amazing journey. But it’s very difficult to move forward in life when you have a relationship holding you tight, trying to keep you from moving forward. And I’m not saying your loved ones wake in the morning thinking of how they will destroy your spiritual journey. I do, however, believe that the devil will snake his way into any crevice and create hardships. The devil is the demon of fear. Perhaps this loved one wants to move forward, but their fear is hindering them. Or maybe this loved one doesnt know Jesus. But it’s for certain the devil is using every opportunity to turn you from your Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. He will take the inch and turn it into a mile. So just as we use weights during exercise to grow stronger; Take these circumstances you are going through and build your spiritual muscles. Model Christ for those that need him most. “… For we are the temple of the living God.” 2 Cor 6:15

-Rachel

November 20, 2009 - 8:15 pm

Jamie Carpenter - Love your Friday devotions!! Thanks for all the great inspirations!

November 20, 2009 - 6:47 pm

Lisa McCain - wow Rachel – so mature beyond your years you are! Keep this momentum growing and you will impact hundreds, no thousands, of lives throughout your lifetime. God is truly using you for his Glory through capturing His beauty through your camera lens to crafting inspirational messages to everyone within your reach! Let nothing hold you back sister! Proud of you!

November 20, 2009 - 4:12 pm

Chad Grover - That is awesome! Not only do you take pictures well but you are a great writer. That was very very good! You are so right in so many ways. Proud to be a friend of yours that is not holding you back! God bless you and your family!

Chad

November 20, 2009 - 3:33 pm

Launa - My sister in law has been keeping me up to date on her Esther bible study. She just told me about this last week. I couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much!

November 20, 2009 - 2:32 pm

Kathy Prescott - I am so overwhelmed with emotion after reading this! I am so proud of you. These words bring much comfort to me today. Thank you for reminding me of why God put me where I am today. I love you Rachel!

November 20, 2009 - 11:11 am

Lindsay Jones - Well that hit home for me today. All week I have been carrying fear. Thanks for the blog.

November 20, 2009 - 10:34 am

shayna - wow! i have been dealing with a tough relationship for the past coupld of weeks and i really needed this….gosh your awesome!

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